gracious

Synonyms: accommodating affable amiable amicable approachable beneficent benevolent benign benignant big-hearted bland bonhomous charitable chivalrous civil compassionate complaisant congenial considerate cordial courteous courtly easy forthcoming friendly gallant genial good-hearted good-natured hospitable indulgent lenient loving merciful mild obliging pleasing polite sociable stately suave tender unctuous urbane well-mannered

Antonyms: discourteous hateful mean nasty rude sarcastic severe ungiving ungracious unkind vulgar